Saturday, July 22, 2017

SPOTLIGHT SATURDAY: LIFE IS BUT A DREAM

By Mary Kennedy                            
 
It's Spotlight Saturday and I'd like to give a little shout-out to my Dream Club Mysteries.
                                                          

 
 
As a psychologist, I spend much of my time listening to my clients talk about their dreams. I always find this part of the session the most fascinating. Sometimes (well, many times!) my clients surprise me.

A client who appeared shy and reticent confided that she was a Broadway star in her dreams. “Really?” I asked. “What was that like for you?”
Flushing with pleasure she admitted that she loved being in the spotlight, that her social anxiety had vanished and she was thrilled by the applause.
                                                         
We chuckled together at her playing a singer in Dream Girls and we theorized about why she had this particular dream at this time in her life. As it turned out, she was facing a stressful situation. As a newly engaged young lady, her fiancé planned to take her clear across the country to meet his large, extended family. There would be dozens of relatives—plus his parents, of course—to meet her for the very first time. She’d been dreading the big family celebration and felt (quite incorrectly) that she would be judged harshly.

So we explored the idea that this particular dream had given her the chance to “rehearse” being the center of attention. The situation her mind created—starring in a Broadway show—was much bigger than anything she would encounter in real life. But our minds do that when we sleep. They shift through all the story possibilities and come up with something that is often more “over the top” than the real life situation the dreamer is facing.
She was so dazzled by her “Broadway show dream” that she wished she would have it again. I noticed she appeared more relaxed and outgoing than usual. When I asked her if she still felt the same trepidation about meeting her finance’s family, she smiled and said, “Well, I guess there’s  always the possibility they will like me.”  The story ended happily. Her visit went amazingly well, she had no anxiety and made a hit with her in-laws.
                                                        


In any case, it’s fun to explore our dreams and what they really mean, as the characters in the Dream Club do. The members like to think that they are uncovering clues to solving murders in Savannah and they seem to have had some success. They combine intuition with solid sleuthing skills and some dream work. But do clues from their dreams really solve crimes? Is it luck, or coincidence or a combination of the two?  I leave it to the reader to decide.
By the way, NIGHTMARES CAN BE MURDER, the first of the Dream Club Mysteries is on sale on Kindle right now for only $2.99. A great way to start this fun cozy series.   https://www.amazon.com/Nightmares-Can-Be-Murder-Mystery-ebook/dp/B00IOE4MS0/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1499009165&sr=1-1&keywords=nightmares+can+be+murder       
                                                             
          
 
Happy reading, everyone!


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